The men belonging to the eighth zodiac sign, Scorpio, are popular for their magnetic personalities and mysterious charm (Ryan Gosling‘s horoscope is a Scorpio – need we say more?!).
This zodiac sign is widely regarded as one of the most trustworthy of all the zodiac signs, and the least likely to cheat on their partner – which is no surprise, considering they’re ranked as the #1 star-sign boyfriend!
These ambitious men walk about with an air of secrecy that is beguiling and often intoxicating for untrained eyes. They’re quite the eye candies to look at, but other than that, it’s hard to know much about them.
So how will you ever know if he has feelings for you? We’ve compiled 8 surefire signs that a Scorpio man has feelings for you – and even if you notice 3-4 of the signs mentioned below, you’re in for the ride of a lifetime.
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1. He’s got tell-tale eyes.
That oh so suave Scorpio man you’ve had your eyes on for a while seems to be playing hard to get. He had your attention from the get-go, and now he’s withdrawn. His overall mysterious aura is getting a little too much to handle – and you want to know if there’s any “hope.”
Your friends have been passing you the consolatory “He’s into you” remarks, but you’re not convinced. You don’t want to ask him blatantly and have him feel cornered, but you don’t want to cling to false hopes, either.
So, what do you do? Watch out for his eyes. It’s that simple! If you’ve been finding yourself locking eyes with him a little too often to call it coincidental, that’s your first sign that he’s started to harbor some feelings for you.
The Scorpio man is indeed that reserved loner who doesn’t feel the need to engage in small talks to impress you, but his eyes will give him away. You’ll constantly find those roving eyes of his settling on you. His eyes will seek you out in a crowd, hone in on you, and rest on yours.
He may be a man of few words, but his “tell-tale eyes” will give him away. Watch out for his watchful eyes!
2. He really sees you.
Since he’s been following you with his eyes, he sees you – but not just superficially. He sees you for who you are – and, unbeknownst to you, he’s acquainted with all your quirks and qualms.
Although he’s kept his mouth shut, his eyes and ears have gone to work overtime. He knows your likes and dislikes not because you’ve told him, but because he’s observed you closely – which is another sign he has feelings for you.
When you’re out drinking and you see the bar is super busy, you’ll find him handing you your favorite drink just as you turn around feeling frustrated. He suggests going to the latest Japanese restaurant because you had let slip that you like sushi at one point or another – but once there, it turns out he doesn’t even like seafood.
What does that mean? It means your Scorpio is into you, and he wants you to know. He may not get straight to the point yet, because he’s patient, but he’s sure to make his presence felt. His small gestures are hard to avoid, and these are the early signs that he has feelings for you.
3. He determitendly persues you.
No matter where you go, there he is. He’ll seek you out, come to you, and will be at your heels. Scorpios are famous for their determination – which is why he’ll always be two steps behind you, making sure you’re in his line of sight.
No, he isn’t a stalker; He’s a pursuer in pursuit of the person he has set his sights on. He doesn’t have the time or energy to play hard to get, so he’ll probably be the first to text or call.
There will be no guessing games on your part – because once you have his attention, he’ll give you some and more.
Be ready to be showered with a lot of attention and invitations. He’s found you – and until he completely wins you over, he will be at your heels.
4. He’s suddenly become more reserved.
The first few times you saw him, he was all talks. His confidence was something you immediately noticed and his all too encompassing knowledge got you impressed. However, in your recent meetings, he has toned down a lot, and you might have noticed he’s retreated into the golden silence.
This sudden change has got you wondering and trying to figure out if he may have feelings for you. His withdrawn attitude has you questioning. You had felt the spark, and now it’s waning all too fast – but worry no more! This is the epic Scorpio behavior, and you had better get used to it.
His silence could throw you off, but let it throw you in the right direction. He’s quiet because he wants you to do the talking; he wants to get to know you better. He’s all ears!
You have piqued his interest, so he’s taking the backseat and waiting for you to open up. He’ll take his time, as he wants to know everything and anything he has to know about you.
Don’t misread or misunderstand his silence for indifference; when it comes to Scorpio men, silence bears a whole different meaning: he’s opening his ears to you and making room for you in his heart.
5. He tries to impress you by spoiling you.
Your Scorpio man will go all out to spoil you rotten and spoil you like there’s no tomorrow.
You’ve got his attention, you’ve impressed him, and you’ve aroused his curiosity. He’ll now embark on a curiosity crusade in his effort to get to know you better, and soon, he’ll get the show going – and you’ll be the main attraction.
He’ll treat you like a princess – because to him, you actually are one. While he’s known to have financial savvy, he’ll be more than generous in buying the most extravagant gift or taking you out to dinner at the finest restaurant.
The reason this hardworking, non-frivolous man turns into an extravagant spendthrift is that he knows you’re worth much more.
While you may find it intimidating to receive expensive gifts and treats or may question if he is doing this to “buy” your love, just know that he’s doing it because he values you.
When this man has feelings for you, price is secondary and value is everything.
6. He’ll be your knight in shining armor.
You’re no damsel in distress and you need no knight in shining armor – and yet, here’s a man who will don his protective suit and stave off any distress that comes your way or may befall you.
Scorpio men are known for their fierceness when it comes to people they love. They protect who they consider their loved ones to such an extent that the ones under their protection may never feel the need for protection.
Do you want to know why? His intuition helps him navigate through situations that “mere mortals” may never even anticipate. He prevents any unfortunate events from taking place without your knowledge.
- Remember the bar where he handed you your favorite drink? He’ll have you out of the bar before a brawl breaks out.
- After a day with the clearest sky, he’ll have an umbrella handy for when it starts pouring out of the blue.
- When you’ve had a long day at work or had to run a lot of errands, he’ll come pick you up just to drop you home.
You’ll feel safe wherever you are – not because the world is a safe place, but because he has gone to great lengths to create one for you.
7. He opens up to you.
You’ve been drawn to him ever since you first set your eyes on him. Indeed, the Scorpio man’s sex appeal has always been the talk of the town – and you’re only human, after all.
His sexy side is for all to see – but what most people never get to see, is his sensitive side. As fiercely as he’s ready to protect the ones he loves, he’s equally on guard when it comes to his sensitivity. If you’ve been lucky enough for him to reveal his sensitive side to you, he’s done so because he has feelings for you.
A Scorpio man’s mysterious aura is like a cape that keeps his sensitive side under a veil. He looks confident; his fierceness, intensity, and passion all make him a formidable being who can be intimidating and cold.
However, he’s actually a kind-hearted man! He’s often misunderstood – and he doesn’t mind it one bit.
He doesn’t feel the need to explain himself or open up; that side of him is reserved for a select few very special people. If he lets you in on his sensitivity, he’s smitten.
8. He’ll let you know.
A Scorpio man has a very strong sense of responsibility, and so he won’t let you waste your time or energy if he’s not interested in you. If he doesn’t have feelings for you, you’ll know it sooner than later.
Often this trait of his can make him look haughty and arrogant, however, such a response comes because he respects you, and values time. Unlike most men, an uninterested Scorpio man won’t keep you around without a relationship.
He doesn’t don’t play games when it involves matters of the heart, so if he hasn’t shut you down yet, chances are he has feelings for you.
The Bottom Line
If you’ve been pursued by a Scorpio gentleman, you’re a lucky lady! He’s a lover like no other – and once loved by a Scorpio, you’re set for life. He will define “love” for you, and rest assured, he’ll be the definition of all things love.
However, just a word of caution: If you’re not ready for a serious relationship but see a few of the above 8 signs, speak your mind and let him off the hook. You don’t want to be in a Scorpio’s bad graces. These passionate creatures can go both ways – whether loving or hating. Just like the symbol scorpion, they can be awfully poisonous.
Take a look at these 23 Famous, Sexy Scorpio Males to see more about the mighty scorpion!
If you’d like to find out more about a different Zodiac or other star sign compatibilities, check out our complete guide to Horoscopes – and learn how they impact relationships.