Sometimes feelings of sexual arousal can come out of nowhere, especially when a woman is very attracted to a man or if it’s been a while since she’s had sex.
Reading a sex scene in a steamy romance novel or watching a love scene in a movie can cause you to unexpectedly become wet.
It is also possible to become extremely aroused by having a conversation with an attractive man (or woman), so you might wonder how you can stop getting wet while talking to someone.
Feelings of sexual arousal can be very strong and talking to someone who you find sexy can cause you to become wet instantly.
There are some ways to prevent yourself from becoming wet when talking to someone that you find attractive, and one way is to focus on what the person is saying instead of the sexy rumble of their voice.
If that fails, you could try focusing your attention on an object that’s in the room you’re in, but make sure you’re able to listen to what the guy is saying at the same time.
At certain times during a woman’s cycle, she has a tendency to become wetter than usual down there.
This can be a combination of increased cervical fluid due to impending ovulation, which is a time when a woman is naturally hornier than usual, as well as due to her increased arousal.
It can seem as if the amount of wetness is overwhelming at times, so a woman may need to sop up some of the excess fluids before engaging in sexual acts with her man.
For some men, the wetter a woman is, the more turned-on he becomes, but for other men, it can be difficult to sustain an erection when a woman is excessively wet.
These men state that all they feel is a huge mass of “slipperiness” instead of the walls of her vagina, and he may lose his erection because of this strange, slippery sensation.
The couple may need to wipe themselves down and see if that helps once they resume intercourse.
While some men love sopping up a woman’s natural fluids while performing oral sex on her, other men find the excess fluid a turn-off and may refuse to go down on their girlfriend when she’s extremely wet.
Every man is different, and there are some men that love everything about a woman’s vagina, fluids and all, and other men who are squeamish when it comes to certain aspects of a woman’s private area.
Neither reaction is wrong as it is a simple matter of personal opinion.
The majority of men love blowjobs, and many don’t have a problem reciprocating when it comes to oral sex.
However, there are some men who refuse to go down on a woman yet want them to continue to perform fellatio and this may anger women.
If a woman wants to entice her boyfriend to go down on her, she needs to ensure that she’s freshly showered, not on her period, and present the idea to him. But if he still refuses, then they may need to have a talk.
Some men find it incredibly sexy to see their girlfriend or wife get on her knees and perform oral sex on them.
Some men also see this act as a woman submitting to him, which can be highly erotic.
Another reason that men like blowjobs so much is because, at that moment, there’s no pressure for him to satisfy anyone else in a sexual manner, and he can focus on his own enjoyment.
Most men find it incredibly sexy for their girlfriends or wives to become very wet during sex.
It can make a man feel “manly” to cause that sort of reaction in his significant other.
Many men feel proud that they’re doing something that arouses their partner so much.
There are certain times of the month, especially when she’s approaching ovulation, that things naturally become wetter and more slippery down there.
This doesn’t necessarily mean that a woman is more turned on than usual; it could simply mean that her hormones are causing her to be more wet than usual.
There could even be times when a woman is incredibly aroused but she’s not able to become as wet as usual, and this can also be controlled by where she is in her cycle as well as certain hormone levels.
Many women are able to continue to get wet during arousal after menopause, while others will struggle in this area.
Every woman’s body is different, and while some women don’t notice a difference in how wet they’re able to get after menopause, others are astounded at the huge difference.
Fortunately, there are many lubricants on the market that can mimic the body’s natural fluids, enabling women who need a little assistance to still enjoy sex.
Yes, women are typically a lot wetter down there during pregnancy, as the body naturally produces excess fluid to ward off any possible infection.
Some pregnant women notice so much wetness that they’re forced to wear panty liners to keep the excess wetness from causing irritation or chafing.
Many men enjoy the extra wetness during their partners’ pregnancies, as it often makes sex easier, especially if the woman previously experienced vaginal dryness.
For some women, there is a single part of a man’s body that instantly turns them on, and for some women, a man’s hands are a major turn-on.
Many women can easily imagine a man’s sexy hands rubbing on certain parts of their bodies, which can be extremely arousing.
For other women, it may not be a man’s hands, but it could be his smile, his lips, his butt, or just about anyone thing about a man that makes a woman hot.
Many men have major erogenous zones on their body, or parts of their body that are very sensitive to sexual stimulation.
Some men’s ears are erogenous zones, and if you want to quickly get him in the mood, just nibble on his ear lobes to get him aroused.
Some other erogenous zones on a man are his scalp, penis, scrotum, among others, and you will just have to experiment on your man to find his most sensitive body parts.
While women do share some of the same erogenous zones with men, women do have some of their own unique “sensitive” spots.
For instance, women also have many nerve endings in their ears that make this an erogenous area for them, but many women will be ready to jump a man’s bones if he starts playing with and massaging her feet and toes.
If a man starts nibbling and sucking on her toes and feet, he will really be in trouble, because this is a huge source of arousal for many women.
According to studies conducted by psychologists, men think about sex on an average of about once an hour, while women think about sex once every two hours.
However, the study did take into consideration that not all women feel 100% comfortable disclosing their thoughts regarding sex, so women could actually think about sex as often as men do, on average.
Thinking about sex often means that a person has a healthy, normal sexual appetite and it is nothing to be ashamed of.
Getting wet by merely having a conversation with a person means that you’re extremely attracted to him or her.
While this isn’t necessarily a bad thing, if your conversation isn’t sexually related and you’re trying to discuss something important, it can be very distracting.
Luckily, there are some ways to hopefully minimize your arousal, such as focusing on other, more pertinent things at that moment and saving your sexual fantasies for later on when you’re alone.