Trying out new sex positions with your boyfriend can be a great deal of fun.
Not only can it enrich your relationship and keep things exciting and fresh, but it can bring the two of you closer.
If you’ve been trying to come up with some new positions, you might be wondering how to straddle your boyfriend.
Straddling your boyfriend doesn’t necessarily have to entail or lead to sex, although most of the time it does.
Simply climb onto his lap and face him while he’s sitting.
Then, drape your legs around him, either on all fours or with your knees on the couch, car seat, or chair.
Straddling your boyfriend is a great way to encourage intimacy between the two of you.
You can easily kiss, hug, and even make love – if the two of you happen to get riled up while in this position.
Having sex while straddling your boyfriend is a great way for you to take control during your lovemaking and it can also make it easier to achieve orgasm. If you’ve ever experienced difficulty in that area, straddling is a great thing to try.
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There are many ways to turn your boyfriend on while straddling him, and for many men, the simple act of having their girlfriend sit on their laps in such a way is enough to get their juices flowing.
Some men need a bit more stimulation, however, and there are plenty of ways for you to achieve your goal.
One surefire way that you can turn your man on while straddling him is to nibble on his earlobes.
Studies conducted on men to determine what their erogenous zones are discovered that many men enjoy having their earlobes nibbled on, sucked, or caressed.
The earlobes are an erogenous zone because there are many nerve endings in this area, and gently sucking, blowing on, or caressing them can really turn your man on.
Of course, every man is different, and not all men enjoy having their earlobes nibbled, so you might want to experiment in the beginning and see what his reaction is before proceeding.
Just like your man’s earlobes are an erogenous zone, so is his neck. Since you’re going to be straddling him, you can easily access his neck and kiss, lick and tease him in this area.
This is another way to really get your honey riled up and ready for some hot action.
By straddling your man, you’re in the perfect face-to-face position to kiss him.
However, instead of simply giving him a peck or two, kiss him with all the passion that you can muster.
You’re already in a super sexy position, so why not pair it with some super sexy kissing?
Gently lick, nibble, and kiss your man’s lips while gently jutting your tongue in and out of his mouth.
If you two don’t usually kiss so sensuously, then he’s very likely to enjoy the lip action you’re giving him.
Even if you have kissed in a passionate manner before, everything is enhanced while you’re sitting in such an intimate and sexy position, so don’t be surprised if it drives him wild.
Just because you’re in an intimate and sexy position doesn’t mean that things must end with the two of you having sex.
One especially great way to enhance the intimacy between you and your sweetheart while you’re straddling him is to simply sit there and cuddle.
Holding each other in this manner can sometimes be even more enjoyable than sex, as well as more beneficial in some ways.
Not only can cuddling lower stress levels by promoting intense relaxation, but cuddling also promotes the production of oxytocin, the bonding hormone.
Oxytocin is very relaxing and can improve sleep and lower stress levels.
If you and your boyfriend usually skip the cuddling and go straight to sex, then you don’t know what you’re missing out on.
The last thing you may think about doing while straddling your boyfriend is having a deep talk, but depending on what your conversation entails, it could be a great time for this.
While straddling your boyfriend, initiate a conversation about how much you love him or about future plans.
Having a heartfelt talk while sitting in a close and intimate position is a great way to help the two of you grow even closer.
If you’re in the mood for sex, then there is nothing sexier than straddling him while you grind your genitals against his.
Your clothes won’t remain on for long, as you’re both get super turned on super fast.
Foreplay in this position can be fun, fresh, and exciting, especially if you’ve never straddled your man before.
Another way to ensure that your straddling session will lead to some hot sex is to go topless.
Even if your boyfriend isn’t exactly a “boob-man,” you’ll get him extremely excited by ripping off your shirt and bra (if you’re wearing one) and rubbing your breasts and nipples all over his face and mouth.
Your boyfriend won’t be able to get you to the bedroom fast enough, or, even better, you two can devour each other right there where you’re straddling him.
Many men have sensitive nipples, just like women, and it can be an erogenous zone for them. If you’re not sure whether your man will like it or not, you’ll never know until you give it a try.
When you start nibbling, licking, and sucking, you’re likely to receive a very favorable response from your hottie.
You can decide whether you want to give your man a relaxing massage or a sexual one, but whichever type you decide on, you’re bound to both enjoy it.
Take off your honey’s shirt and gently massage his neck, shoulders, and chest.
You don’t need any massage oil to ensure that he absolutely loves his massage, and if it leads to some hanky panky, then enjoy!
Men love it when women run their fingers through their hair, so don’t forget to rub his scalp when you’re giving him his massage.
In fact, your man’s scalp is another erogenous zone that is likely to get him sexually excited.
While you’re massaging his scalp, be sure to use your nails to gently scratch his scalp, while alternating between applying gentle pressure with your fingertips.
While you’re massaging your man or even kissing him, don’t forget that his face could benefit from some attention as well.
Whether you opt for simply massaging your man’s face, or you decide to give it some kisses and licks, your man will feel like he’s in heaven.
Massaging your man’s face, scalp, and shoulders can be combined with other things, like force-feeding your breasts or grinding your genitals against his, and altogether they’re sure to send him through the roof.
As you can see, straddling your man can be fun, and there are numerous things that you can do while the two of you are in this position.
If you’re in the mood for some sexy time, then straddling him is a great position to get things started.
However, if you’re simply trying to spend some intimate time together, then it’s a great way to talk or simply sit there and enjoy the closeness.