Every woman wants to feel liked, and even the shiest women out there want to believe that men are attractive to them.
People usually take their own attractiveness for granted or believe that they aren’t as attractive as others think. In fact, you may already see signs that men are attracted to you, and don’t even notice.
Women often don’t know how gorgeous they are, and simply go through life focusing on their flaws. A man looks at you, and all he sees is perfection! But how can you tell? There are certain signs you can look out for. Keep reading for the top 12 signs that men find you attractive.
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1. Men are comfortable in your company.
Some women just have that special something – the thing that makes men perfectly comfortable in their company – and it’s not just about looks. There’s a lot more going on than physical appearance only.
It’s the way a woman holds herself, the way she speaks, the things she says, the way she looks at a man, and her entire body language. Her sense of humor and easy-going attitude is what really attracts men to a woman. Not just high heels and red lipstick, despite what magazines might say, but the whole package..
A woman who knows how to use her feminine energy in the company of men, is simply irresistible. At the end of the day, men are simple beings, and are primal in their attraction. They’ll always be attracted to that feminine energy, as it’s what comes natural to them.
Men feel at home around someone who is open and honest – and especially someone who accepts men as the physical beings they truly are.
2. He tries being close to you.
When someone finds you attractive, they want to get closer to you. With closeness comes more tactile ways of getting to know you, “accidental touching”. The truth is, it’s definitely not accidental.
A man who has his eyes on you as more than a friend, might:
- Somehow brush against your hair
- Touches your hand when you laugh
- Stands really close to you
- Leads you out of a room by touching the small of your back
- Wants to stand close to you and smell your perfume
Men are biologically wired to move closer to women they’re attracted to, so if you are in a bar with a few friends but he somehow always stands next to you, it means he prefers your company over any other woman – and he’s got his eyes on you.
PSA: Just because someone feels like touching you, doesn’t mean that it’s allowed – so do not hesitate to state your boundaries if it makes you feel uncomfortable, and reach out to another woman nearby if your boundaries seem like they’re being crossed.
If you do like him, however, then touching him back casually will be a huge turn on for him.
3. He’s being an “alpha” around you.
To really tell when a guy likes you, watch his entire body language change when you’re around. A guy who’s attracted to you wants to stand out from the crowd to make sure that he is noticed by you. He’s ready to go to battle for your heart, like an alpha male, and his entire body language is saying that.
He might be flexing his muscles around you, pulling in his stomach, and trying to stand tall. He might also become tense and annoyed when another guy talks to you. He wants you to choose him – and he’s ready for the chase.
4. He watches for your reaction.
When a guy likes you, he craves your approval and admiration. He wants to know that you’re listening to him, and that you find him interesting. Don’t be surprised if he suddenly watches for your reaction to what he says, especially when he makes a joke.
He’s looking for hints that you like him. This is often when a lot of women play a clever game of ignoring a guy. It drives them crazy, and they know it. It often works wonders – because a guy needs to win, can’t stand being ignored by the woman he finds attractive, and will try even harder to win him over.
If you know he’s got his eyes on you, then you know you’ve got power over him. Use it wisely!
5. You get compliments all the time.
One of the surefire ways to tell that you’re attractive to men is simply by the number of comments you get about your appearance. Men like your Instagram photos, they comment on your smile, and outfit.
Men usually don’t notice the little details as much as you think they should, so when they pay you a compliment, they really do mean it.
The classiest thing to do in those situations is smile and thank them – not fight them on it or list all the reasons why you don’t deserve a compliment. There’s no need to justify it, explain it, or write it off. It’s a huge turnoff, and can make a guy feel really stupid – to the point where he might not dare pay you a compliment again.
6. He wants to know everything about you.
A man who finds you attractive will naturally want to get closer to you and find out all there is to know about you – your job, your friends, your hobbies, what you like, and what makes you tick! He’ll be asking questions and possibly snooping around, including asking others about you, to try and figure you out.
He’ll definitely try and find out if you’re single, and if not, he’ll need to see who his competition is.
7. He shows off around you.
He’ll be doing his best to show off, whenever he gets the chance – which is especially true when he feels that there’s competition for your affection.
He might even put himself in a competitive situation just because he wants to impress you (which is a definite way to see if your co-worker finds you attractive, for instance).
8. He’s nervous around you.
While some men might act “macho” around you, he could equally be completely dumfounded – and even act a little weird when he sees you, especially unexpectedly.
If a guy is usually calm, but is now acting a little odd around you, it’s a definite sign that he’s in his head to much – probably thinking of things to say, or whether or not you like him.
Every man’s ultimate fear is rejection from a woman he finds attractive, so if he’s being a little anxious and intimidated, it’s no surprise.
9. He flirts with you.
At the end of the day, if a man finds you attractive, he’ll put his flirt game on sooner or later -before he even knows you well, or knows whether you’re single or taken, he will get flirty and cute with you – testing the waters, and watching for your reaction.
It’s his way of finding out whether he can proceed with asking you out, or he should stop. If you somehow always find yourself surrounded by men who can’t help but flirt with you, then you know you’re one attractive woman. Enjoy it!
10. He’ll fiddle with his clothes or hair.
Don’t be surprised if he’s fiddling with his socks, buttoning or unbuttoning his jacket, stroking his hair, or fixing his belt. He’s fidgeting, and doesn’t seem to know what to do with himself. He wants to look good in your eyes, and certainly wants to look better than his competition.
11. He checks you out often.
Men check out women all the time; it’s how they’re wired. But, if he checks you out openly and isn’t even trying to hide it, it means he wants you to know. He is sending you a very strong signal that he likes you.
It’s common to catch a man staring, and not at your face! Men let their eyes wander when they find someone attractive, and sometimes are very obvious about it. It’s normal, as men are easily turned on by visual stimuli – a lot more than women in fact, according to research studies.
12. He only wants to talk to you.
In a group of many, he somehow always finds his way to you, stands really close to you, and wants to hear everything you’ve got to say. He tries to keep a conversation going by asking you more questions, even if you’ve long exasperated a topic.
No story is too boring for him, because it’s you who’s telling it. It’s really adorable! He encourages you to open up and asks prompting questions, trying to really get to know you.
The Bottom Line
When men find you attractive, they can rarely hide it. They aren’t as subtle as women, so if you catch them staring at you, laughing at all your jokes, or always trying to stay close to you, it’s a big sign that they find you attractive.
If you’re looking for ways to make men chase you, check out 17 Ways to Instantly Become More Attractive to Men.